Friday, March 6, 2009

Advice For Men How to Keep a Woman Happy

The first thing on relationships is to always be yourself.
Many men don’t feel that they are good enough to
catch a beautiful, sexy woman, so they put on a show.
But a confident man is the sexiest guy around.
Have you ever noticed that some of the ugliest guys
have some of the prettiest women?
That is because they display a level of confidence
that is more attractive to women than physical looks.

Second, you should do the little things.
This means offering to take her car in for an oil change
or giving her a bag of candy (her favorite flavors)
from time to time. Sometimes men think in terms of
“grand gestures,” when it is the little things add up
to long relationships.

This ties into the next piece of advice on relationships:
appreciate her. Do not ever take her for granted.
Let her know that you value her.

Next up is not obviously looking at other women
when you are with her. Women think that you are
comparing her to the woman you’re looking at.
They don’t understand the whole concept of
“the day I stop looking is the day I die.” This
comes from the biological drive for monogamy in women.
Women are looking for a lifetime partner for a man
with whom they can raise children. They can’t help it.
That’s how evolution designed them. So minimize the ogling,
especially when she’s around.

Make her laugh. While men list good looks at the top
of the things they need in a woman, women list a
man’s sense of humor. So, if you want the relationship to last,
keep her laughing.

The next bit of advice on relationships comes in seeking
common interests. It’s great if you got together because
of a hobby or an interest, but it still helps when you
take an interest in a long standing passion of hers.
If this means developing an appreciation for foreign films,
so be it. This shows that you care about her and she’ll
know you are one in a million.

Once you get the girl, it may seem like you don’t have
to try anymore – at least as far as grooming goes.
And, while women are less sensitive to looks than men are,
they still like a man who makes an attempt. So, shave on weekends.
Keep in touch with the latest fashion trends for men.
In short, don’t get sloppy just because you’ve
landed her. You can unland her just as easily.

She’s going to need to know that she can integrate you
into her circle of family and friends.
A man must be part of her larger life, especially after
the first few weeks of passion are over.
So, make an effort to get along with her girlfriends
and impress her parents. A woman relies on her social
network to validate her relationship choices.
Make an effort, because you can really blow it here.

You should always be considerate of her feelings.
Women are less stable than guys. Part of this is hormonal.
When you are sensitive to her mood, you won’t get
on her bad side.

The final piece of advice on relationships is to be open
to trying new things. At the beginning of a relationship,
everything is new from the types of dates you arrange to
the way you kiss. But, after a while, these things
become routine. If you find that your relationship has
fallen into a rut, shake things up. Try something new.
It will go a long way to keeping your relationship healthy.

So, there are ten bits of advice on relationships to keep
your dating life strong. Look you guys, these things
are common sense and the fact is I almost drove my
sweetheart out of my life because I didn't pay attention
to what I was doing. There is a book that woke me up
written by T 'Dub' Jackson called "The Magic Of Making Up".

After I read it and began applying his common sense suggestions,
our love life turned around. Not only that all of my
personal relationships, with friends, co-workers
and my family have become much smother than they were before.

Magic Of Making Up

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