Relationship Advice for Men Check Evolution to Find a Mate

What is the best relationship advice for men?
What should men know if they want a relationship
to work for the long haul?

Probably the single biggest piece of relationship
advice for men is to stop listening to what
women say they want and start observing what women
actually display that they want.

How do they display what they want?
It is as simple as observing what
kind of men they choose.

Women say “I want a man who listens to me.”
They choose the man who dominates the conversation.
Women say, “I want a guy with a good sense of humor.”
They date the guy who has money.

Why do women say they want one thing but actually
go out with a guy who is just the opposite?
The answer to that question lies in the subconscious
motivators for getting together.
And, therein lies my relationship advice for men.

The historical, biological reason for men and women
to get together is to propagate the species.
In other words, just because getting pregnant may be
the last thing on her conscious mind, when she evaluates
a man at the subconscious level, she’s still looking
for a good papa for her children.

Is the good dad someone who listens to her?
No, it is someone who will provide for her children.
And, the person who can provide for her children is
someone who has the confidence to bring home the bacon.

Women need men who can be good providers.
While a man can produce thousands of sperm on repeated
occasions throughout their adult lives, even into
their 90’s, women have about 400 chances of
producing a baby. As a result, they are looking for
a man who can provide longevity and stability for their babies.

A man who tells a women he is a lawyer and not a
paralegal will have a better chance of landing her.
That is because she perceives that a lawyer is a better
provider for her future children.

But having a good income is not enough.
A woman needs to perceive that a man is generous with
his resources and will provide for her children.
That is why women place such a high value
on gifts such as jewelry.

It may also be why the engagement ring must be
such a large purchase. When you ask a woman to marry you,
you give her a ring, not just because it is traditional
and romantic, but because it is a tangible display that
you can provide for her and her children.

Further, even though modern humans make money more
from their brains than their brawn, women are still
programmed to think of strength equaling the ability
to provide. That’s why, even when there is evidence
to the contrary in the form of a tax return, the woman
is hardwired to choose the lineman over the computer geek.

So, the biggest piece of relationship advice for men
is to figure out what women need from an evolutionary
point of view and give it to her.