Wednesday, February 25, 2009

How To Get My Ex back And Give Him More Space

Almost everyone has experienced a powerful
relationship in their life, when suddenly everything
which seems so perfectly is broken off because your
boyfriend wants space. There are a number of
different reasons for why a boyfriend may
suddenly need space, including family problems,
insecurities, or a fear of commitment just to name a few.
Here are some tips for answering the age old
"how to get my ex back" question if your ex
boyfriend needs more space.

- You are not going to want to lose your pride,
or to allow him to get the best of you - But clearly
you are still in love with him. It may be ideal to play a
little bit hard to get at first, in order to show him that yes,
it was his loss and not your own.

- If you are feeling like your ex boyfriend still has
feelings for you, then it may be ideal for you to strike
up a conversation with him. Keep communication to a
minimum in order to keep the level of drama to a minimum.
Short text messages, brief phone calls and online
conversations in passing are all a great way to remind
him how much he wants to be a part of your life without
overwhelming him with your presence when he
may actually want and need space.

- Eventually he will begin to show significant interest
in you again if all goes well, and this will give you the
chance to truly begin to reminisce with him.
Keep in mind that you should focus primarily on all of
the good memories associated with your relationship
in the past. While rekindling a relationship with
your ex boyfriend, you are going to want to stay
away from the bad experiences and negative experiences
in case they conjure bad feelings and undo your hard work.

- If your boyfriend is not responding to your slow and
subtle advances, you need to take it for what it is.
Either he just really is not interested in you right now,
or he really does just need space and you should
give it to him. But if on the other hand he seems to be
interested in you more than before, or is slowly
warming up to you again, then you should continue
gradually advancing on him to rekindle the relationship.

- If your ex boyfriend is giving you the right signals,
you can try to open your heart up to him. Let him know
how you feel, but avoid looking desperate or needy
in the process. If your ex is showing you that he is
thinking about rekindling things, then it would be healthy
to be open with him. But if his signals are pointing in the
other direction, it may be wiser to step back
and let things happen more naturally.

How To Get My Ex back

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