Sunday, February 22, 2009

What Can I Do to Get My Ex Back, And The Romance

When you break up with someone you love,
you go through lots of painful emotions.
You feel hurt, depressed and sad, and you miss them.
“What should I do to get my ex back?”
becomes a question you constantly ask yourself.

There are many websites, books, blogs, forums and
even courses designed to answer this question,
what should I do to get my ex back?, and maybe some
romance too. But common sense can really make a
difference after a breakup. And common courtesy
can go long way toward healing your relationship.

If you’re felling lost in your relationship, wondering
“what should I do to get the romance back?”
then follow this simple advice. You’ll give yourself the best
chance of getting back together with that special love.

Don’t play head games. This is very important, but
unfortunately many people resort to this during
breakups because it gives them a sense of power.
If you can make the other person think that you
don’t care, or you care more than you really do,
you’re manipulating them and that can feel great.
But it won’t feel good for long.

Eventually you’ll realize that lying and tricking the
other person isn’t a good feeling.
And anything good that happens because of it
will always be sullied a little because of the lie.

Some people play games where they pretend to
be dating someone else, or they pretend to be in
love with someone else. This is a ploy to make the ex
jealous. While it does work now and then,
other times it makes the breakup
permanent because it backfires.

Your ex could be so jealous at the thought of you
being with someone else that they want you back.
Or they could decide that since you moved on so quickly,
you don’t really care about them anyway.
You have no way of knowing which
way this will work until it’s too late.

Don’t be mean. This holds true in any situation or
any relationship, but sometimes the anger around
a breakup makes us act more viciously than we
normally might. Even if you’re hurt, the fact that
you want to know, ‘What should I do to get my ex back?”
shows that you’re ready to forgive that person.
If you couldn’t, you wouldn’t want your ex back,
you’d be glad it was over.

Now, look how you’ve been acting.
If you were your ex, would you look forward to
spending time with you or talking to you?
Or would you dread each time? Do you bitch and shout?
Even if you feel like raising all kinds of
arguments, simply don’t. Work very hard at controlling
your anger and hurt, and being a person they
can miss and come back to.

“What should I do to get my ex back?”
Be on your best behavior and make
your ex remember what drew them to
you in the first place. They’ll remember
your good points and will miss them.
Then you’ll have a better chance of being
able to get back together with your ex.

These are just the beginning steps in winning
your Ex back. They are the initial
steps I followed when I lost the love of my life.
And frankly these aren't my
original ideas. I turned to T 'Dub' Jackson when
I had no idea of how to get my true love back.

T 'Dub' authored a simple, down to earth
step by step plan called
"The Magic Of Making Up". And you know,
it worked like magic for us. Now we are more in
love than ever.

See T'Dubs Book Here

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