Friday, February 20, 2009

I Want My Ex Back in 3 Steps

Have you just experienced a break up recently,
and you are wondering
"how can I get back together with my ex”?
You may want to get back with your ex immediately,
and this is a common feeling that everyone experiences.
You can find yourself following into an
emotionally depressed state, and you may find yourself
wondering what can I do. You may immediately feel like
calling your ex and begging him or her to come back to you.
But is this really going to make things better?
Rather than make things better, what it is probably going
to do is make your situation much worse,
chasing your ex away even further.

What you should actually do at this point
is the opposite of what you are feeling.
Do you feel like calling your ex?
Don't! Do you feel like staying inside and crying all day long?
Don't! Instead, follow these three basic steps and you
will have the answer that you need to the question
"How do I get back together with my ex?"

Step 1 - How to get back with my ex:
Accept the Break Up!
First and foremost, you need to accept that the
break up is happening. Tell your ex that you are okay with it,
and allow the "moving on" process to begin.
When you do this, it will eliminate a large amount
of the tension and stress that is being experienced by all.
Your ex will need time to think about the relationship,
and this will give you time as well to consider your options.
If your ex realizes that he or she still loves you,
they will find a way to get back with you.

Step 2 - How to get back with my ex:
Do not contact your ex!
Do not make an effort to contact your ex anymore right now.
You should cut communication off with him or her
so that there can be some "thinking time".
This may seem counterintuitive, but by cutting
communication off you are signaling that you have
already moved on and that you are doing just fine.
This will allow him or her to think about the relationship
and how they feel about its value.
It will also allow them to have some time to miss you again.
When you can separate yourself from your ex and
can calm your nerves, that may be the best time to let
them realize how important you were to them.

Step 3 - How to get back with my ex:
Plan Ahead for the Get TogetherOnce you have
completed the two steps mentioned just above,
you can start working on planning on when you should meet,
where you should meet, and also what should be said
when you do meet up again. This will allow you to get
a better idea of whether or not your ex still loves you,
and also if there is any chance that you and your
ex will be able to get back together.

"How to get back with my ex?" Can be a little more
complicated than the three steps above.
But they are a good start and will improve your
chances of winning your ex back.

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